Many spiritual teachers have had a lot to say on the topic of the ego. But among seekers, a good deal of misunderstanding remains about the ego.
In this conversation, we address the topic of the ego in a simple and accessible manner. We look at its nature; the fact it is not ‘us’; why we should not identify with it; and ultimately, how we can align the ego so it serves our highest and best interest – rather than controlling us. We also discuss some techniques that can be employed to assist us in this process.
When I engage strongly with clients in private sessions, I am engaging with their ego and not with the client. Doing battle with the ego of a client in this way helps them separate from it. Eventually, many come to the point where they can see that their ego is a tool to assist them. However, if they insist on identifying with their ego and playing the victim, it just entrenches the ego even further in a position of control.
To get to the point where our ego serves us rather than controls us, it is necessary to communicate with our higher self in a way that bypasses our ego, so it cannot interfere. SFT Taps provide a means to do this – so long as they are used properly.
I explain how taps work and how using them in private sessions to address a client’s deepest issues, can enable all the consequences arising from each issue to be resolved at the same time. It is like dominoes falling across multiple lifetimes.
The goal is not to subjugate the ego, or to eliminate the ego. To be egoless would be akin to being spineless. Instead, we should seek to align the ego so it serves us, by enriching our lives with positive qualities like a motivation to serve humanity.
Readers might like to experience the SFT taps for themselves …
Say each statement three times while tapping on the top of your head, a fourth time while tapping on your chest, and a fifth time while tapping on your abdomen.
We release being induced to jealousy by the ego ; in all moments
We release being induced to compete by the ego ; in all moments
We release defining relationships as competition; in all moments
We release trying to one others to satiate the ego; in all moments
We release being bullied by the ego; in all moments
We release losing my identity to the ego; in all moments
We release getting swallowed up by the ego; in all moments
We release being used by the ego; in all moments
We release using others to satiate the ego ; in all moments
We release the egos fear of losing control; in all moments
We release bullying others to satiate the ego: in all moments
We release the ego’s fear of being rejected; in all moments
We release rejecting others to appease the ego ; in all moments
We release the ego’s fear of being abandoned; in all moments
We release abandoning others to appease the ego; in all moments
We release being manipulated by the ego; in all moments
We release manipulating others to appease the ego; in all moments
We release being judged by the ego; in all moments
We release judging others to appease the ego; in all moments
We release being unkind to ourselves in any way to placate the ego; in all moments
We release allowing anyone to be unkind to me to satiate the ego; in all moments
We release being ganged up on by the ego; in all moments
We release ganging up on others to satiate the ego ; in a moments
We drop all chronic users from my field of influence; in all moments
We release being a user to satiate the ego; in all moments
