Behavior like being late, smirking, controlling the conversation and even being overly nice can be control issues. There is often a disconnect between what some people think that they are conveying with their actions, and the dynamics they are communicating in energy. Part of my job as a facilitator is to call people on their denial and “encourage” them to shift their relationship with others, them selves and the world.
Some people need to be held accountable. It is actually refreshing for them to not get away with their ways of manipulating situations. It gives them a reprieve from being controlling. Being controlling uses up a lot of energy. It is so much more energy efficient to be empowered and accountable. Being controlling is merely one small step up from being a victim. Being controlling and a victim can actually exhaust all reserve tanks of energy.
Readers might like to experience the SFT taps for themselves …
Say each statement three times while tapping on the top of your head, a fourth time while tapping on your chest, and a fifth time while tapping on your abdomen.
We release saying F#$k you to others by being late; in all moments
We release being manipulative; in all moments
We release demanding attention; in all moments
We remove all blockages to self-awareness; in all moments
We release being in denial; in all moments
We remove all schisms in our energy system; in all moments
We remove all disconnects in our interactions; in all moments
We untangle our communications; in all moments
We untangle the energy in our brain; in all moments
We correct all misfires in the synapses in our brain; in all moments
We release the belief that controlling others is cute; in all moments
We release the guile of “nice”; in all moments
We release abusing power; in all moments.
We release operating in cruelty; in al moments
We release all disconnect between being late and being cruel; in all moments
We release enjoying seeing people squirm; in all moments