In many cultures, boys are valued much more than girls. This is so ingrained that women from particular cultures carry around a disparaging energy of shame and unworthiness underneath the surface that is always present in everything they do. It may show up as being an over achiever or always needing to try harder.
In the session, the woman’s family was displaced from their home in a past lifetime. Everyone with any clout or established wealth was killed. The children were indoctrinated into a new regime. Many times, they were conditioned to be heartless by killing their own parents. A ruthlessness ensued with the new regime. This is the issue that she was avoiding in the present life by staying obedient to her father all through her life.
In the session, the woman was confusing the love of her father with the ruthless regime from a past life. The issue got tangled. Because a child’s mind cannot process the trauma, the issue gets tangled into a pile of triggers and signals that don’t make sense literally. To me, it feels like the synapses of the brain get tangled like Christmas lights packed away in the attic. In this lifetime, she was terrified to defy her father’s wishes because doing so triggered the ruthlessness of a heartless regime
Readers might like to experience the SFT taps for themselves …
Say each statement three times while tapping on the top of your head, a fourth time while tapping on your chest, and a fifth time while tapping on your abdomen.
We release being defined by the issues; in all moments
We release all daddy issues; in all moments
We release all aversion to releasing the issues; in all moments
We release the belief we are nothing beyond the issues; in all moments
We release using the issue to define us; in all moments
We release the pain and trauma of being displaced from our home; in all moments
We release suffering the ravages of war; in all moments
We release having our history erased; in all moments
We release being conditioned into a new regime; in all moments
We release confusing parental love with the new regime; in all moments
We release associating the fear of the new regime with daddy love; in all moments
We release the belief that we will lose our place in life if we defy daddy; in all moments
We lovingly grow our of obeying daddy’s mandates; in all moments
We maintain our sense of self and a loving relationship with daddy; in all moments
