SFT Tapping Companion
- We release hating Cindy; in all moments.
- We release hating Jeff; in all moments.
- We release working out daddy issues on Jeff; in all moments.
- We release working out mommy issues on Cindy; in all moments.
- We release feeling abandoned by Cindy; in all moments.
- We release parenting Cindy; in all moments.
- We release babying Jeff; in all moments.
- We release ignoring Jeff; in all moments.
- We release keeping Jeff waiting; in all moments.
- We remove all engrams and muscle memory of my mom from Cindy; in all moments.
- We remove all engrams and muscle memory of my dad from Jeff; in all moments.
- We release being paralyzed in fear; in all moments.
- We remove all glass ceilings that our parents have put on us; in all moments.
- We release mimicking family dysfunction; in all moments.
- We release inflicting dysfunction on each other; in all moments.
- We dissipate all psychic streams of energy of dysfunction; in all moments.
- We send all energy matrices of dysfunction into the light and sound; in all moments.
- All complex energy matrices of dysfunction are escorted into the light and sound; in all moments.
- We release experiencing our relationship through the filter of dysfunction; in all moments.
- We remove the filter of past trauma from our present relationship; in all moments.
- We release showing up as Cindy’s dad; in all moments.
- We release personifying Jeff’s mom; in all moments.
- We release turning into our dad; in all moments.
- We release turning into our mom; in all moments.
- We release bullying Cindy; in all moments.
- We release punishing Jeff with silence; in all moments.
- We release being a commudgity prick; in all moments.
- We release playing the victim; in all moments.
- We release using the silent treatment; in all moments.
- We release disappearing to invoke abandonment issues; in all moments.
- We release being addicted to love; in all moments.
- We release weaponizing our emotions; in all moments.
- We release being a dry drunk; in all moments.
- We release confusing our partner for the enemy; in all moments.
- We release disassociating from our partner; in all moments.
- We release blaming the other; in all moments.
- We release disassociating from our behavior; in all moments.
- We release disassociating from our lives; in all moments.
- We release withholding our love as punishment; in all moments.
- We release carrying the relationship; in all moments.
- We release treating our relationship like a psychological thriller; in all moments.
- We release being embarrassed of Cindy; in all moments.
- We release apologizing for Jeff; in all moments.
- We release the belief we can do better; in all moments.
- We release the belief that we have settled; in all moments.
- We release inflicting self-criticism on the other; in all moments.
- We remove all of our parents’ demons from our beingness; in all moments.
- We remove all demons of our parents’ relationship from our relationship; in all moments.
- We release parroting our parents; in all moments.
- We release feeding each other’s pain body; in all moments.
- We release creating drama; in all moments.
- We release stirring up drama; in all moments.
- We release feeling like a child; in all moments.
- We remove all the curses our parents have put on us; in all moments.
- We release justifying the abuse; in all moments.
- We release commiserating the abuse; in all moments.
- We release romanticizing the abuse; in all moments.
- We release confusing balance for boring; in all moments.
- We release being addicted to drama; in all moments.
- We release perceiving balance as an enigma; in all moments.
- We remove all blockages to following through on projects; in all moments.
- We release lying to ourselves; in all moments.
- We release lying when it’s easier to tell the truth; in all moments.
- We release being impulsive; in all moments.
- We remove all self-judgment; in all moments.
- We release the judging of others; in all moments.
- We release second-guessing our relationship; in all moments.
- We release the aversion to fun; in all moments.
- We release over-scrutinizing every aspect of everything; in all moments.
- We release taking ourselves so seriously; in all moments.
- We remove all blockages to intimacy; in all moments.
- We release overreacting to change; in all moments.
- We release confusing change with loss; in all moments.
- We release confusing change with being out of control; in all moments.
- We release the compulsive need for approval; in all moments.
- We release the desperate need for affirmation; in all moments.
- We release feeling like an outsider; in all moments.
- We release the schism between ourselves and what we deem is normal; in all moments.
- We release vacillating between irresponsible and overly responsible; in all moments.
- We take back all the energy wasted in blind loyalty; in all moments.
- We nullify all contracts with all those we have blind loyalty for; in all moments.
- We release sabotaging ourselves through impulsiveness; in all moments.
- We clear up all confusion; in all moments.
- We release all self-loathing; in all moments.
- We release derailing our happiness; in all moments.
- We release being enslaved to doing damage control; in all moments.
- We release all depression and anxiety; in all moments.
- We remove all blockages to feeling and being empowered; in all moments.
- We release the emotional hangover from childhood; in all moments.
- We release all emotional blackmail; in all moments.
- We release the belief that love is adversarial; in all moments.
- We release antagonizing each other; in all moments.
- We release the fear of abandonment; in all moments.
- We release treating our relationship like a battle zone; in all moments.
- We are centered and empowered in our love for each other; in all moments.
Introduction
In this private session, world-renowned energy healer Jen Ward facilitates a deep healing for a couple burdened by the unspoken legacy of alcoholic family systems. Both individuals, adult children of alcoholics (ACOAs), carried deeply ingrained patterns of shame, control, abandonment, and emotional confusion that silently distorted their relationship. Through the intuitive application of SFT tapping and powerful energy clearing, Jen guided the couple through a transformative process of disentangling past trauma, family dysfunction, and unconscious behavioral echoes. This session reveals how the unresolved pain of childhood shapes adult intimacy—and how it can be fully healed.
Client Background
The clients were a couple seeking to improve their relationship, unaware that the root issues stemmed from their shared experience of growing up with alcoholic parents. Despite their love and desire to connect, they were caught in cycles of emotional projection, defensiveness, and mistrust. Each partner unknowingly reenacted dynamics from childhood: fear of abandonment, emotional withdrawal, judgment, and a subconscious craving for validation masked as intimacy.
Core Challenges
🔑 Inherited Family Dysfunction: Both clients replicated the patterns of emotional neglect, criticism, and avoidance from their childhood households, bringing those energies into their adult partnership.
🔑 Subconscious Projection: Each partner unconsciously projected their unresolved relationships with their parents onto the other, confusing love with duty, control, or danger.
🔑 Communication Breakdown: Fear of vulnerability, conflict avoidance, and the use of silent treatment created emotional landmines in the relationship.
🔑 Addiction to Drama and Dysfunction: The nervous system became conditioned to associate chaos with love, leading to self-sabotage, emotional withdrawal, and intimacy fear.
🔑 Unhealed Shame and Self-Loathing: Underneath the defensiveness was a core belief in unworthiness, inherited from emotionally unavailable or abusive parental figures.
🔑 Abandonment Imprints: Both clients carried preverbal trauma and deep grief from early abandonment, leaving them emotionally fragile and hypersensitive in adult relationships.
Healing Strategies Implemented
Jen began by tuning into the subtle energies of both clients, identifying the tangled emotional codes inherited from generations of alcoholism and emotional chaos. Using SFT tapping, she guided them through releasing deeply suppressed feelings like hatred, shame, fear, and unworthiness—many of which they initially resisted acknowledging. Through repetition, emotional release, and real-time coaching, Jen helped both partners reclaim their voices, acknowledge their wounds, and stop projecting childhood pain onto each other. Sound healing and energetic exorcism were also used to remove psychic streams of dysfunction and the lingering presence of their parents’ energetic imprints.
Results and Impact
As the session progressed, visible shifts took place in each partner. Emotions once buried beneath silence or sarcasm surfaced and were released. Laughter, tears, and surprise accompanied each breakthrough as layers of conditioned behavior dissolved. The clients reported profound emotional relief, a newfound compassion for themselves and each other, and a clearer understanding of the dynamics that had hindered their connection. Jen’s insights offered not only deep healing for this couple, but also a path forward for anyone caught in the ripple effects of familial addiction. This session stands as a powerful tool for healing intergenerational trauma.
Conclusion
For adult children of alcoholics, the pain is often invisible—woven into the fabric of their thoughts, behaviors, and relationships. In this extraordinary healing session, world-renowned energy healer Jen Ward illuminates those hidden scars and offers the energetic tools to heal them. The result is not just relationship repair but full emotional liberation. This work is for anyone who has felt unseen, unheard, or unlovable in the shadow of addiction. Healing is possible—and it begins with truth, courage, and the willingness to feel what was once too painful to face.
Call to Action
Were you raised in a home where love was mixed with fear, chaos, or silence? Have you carried wounds from alcoholic parents into your adult relationships—through control, abandonment fears, or emotional shutdown?
If so, download the SFT Tapping Protocols here and begin your journey toward healing. To deepen your transformation, complete the Energetic Cleanse Protocol using phrases like “family systems of alcoholism”; “emotional abandonment in childhood”; “confusing love with dysfunction”; “generational curses of addiction”; and “relationship sabotage from inherited trauma.”
You can also explore other powerful sessions in the Video Library here, join upcoming Group SFT Tapping Events here, or take part in immersive Group Healing Events here.
To experience this level of personalized transformation, book a Private Healing Session with Jen Ward here, or dive into lasting change through the Extended Healing Package here.