Regain your sense of self-worth

Rediscover your worth. An evocative tale of a surprise bouquet and the deep reflection on self-worth it ignited. Accept the universe’s gifts. You truly deserve them.

The unexpected bouquet

When one of my older sisters turned eighteen, as a surprise, I ordered her a bouquet of flowers to be delivered to her at the hamburger joint where she worked. When the delivery man arrived with the flowers, I watched in anticipation of my sister’s joy in receiving flowers for the first time. I intentionally didn’t sign the card explaining who the flowers were from. I wanted my sister to conjure up in her mind all the wonderful possibilities of who sent them. Leaving the card open ended was me challenging my sister to think of all the people who possibly had sent the flowers to her.

When the delivery man tried to hand my sister the bouquet, she flat out refused the flowers. She was adamant that they could not possibly be for her. My sister stood behind the counter of her fast-food restaurant job and politely argued with the delivery man for the longest time. She was adamant that the flowers were not for her. There was no scenario in her realm of possibilities that someone had sent her flowers. She was so stubborn in this fact that it was somewhat amusing and sweetly naïve.

The reluctance to receive

I finally had to come forth and intervene on the delivery man’s behalf so that he could get on with his other deliveries. We had been brought up very poor, but I worked at the restaurant and so used my wages to buy the flowers. It even took me a minute to convince the sister that I knew the flowers were for her because I had bought them. It took a while for my sister to absorb the reality that she was special enough to receive flowers. That she indeed mattered. Perhaps that hard sell message for her that she deserved to feel special was the real birthday gift for her. The flowers were merely a carrier of that message.

The memory of that experience etched deeply into my psyche. Her refusal of her self-worth seemed hard wired into her programming. How easy was it for a beautiful young woman to be reduced to such a sense of self-worthlessness? How unusual was her response amongst those who have struggled in the poverty, dysfunction, and abuse of broken homes? Did she have any responsibility for her devalued sense of self? Or was it the by-product of those responsible for her upbringing being unable or unwilling to empower her? Her lack of self-worth seemed such a waste of human potential.

So many people, through no fault of their own, are feeling like they don’t matter. They go through life refusing the gifts that the Universe has in hand for them. In a sense so many humans are arguing against their own worth. Even though the Universe is patiently attempting to send them love and blessings over and over again, the receiver argues against all possibilities of receiving the gifts. So many blessings are left unacknowledged and pushed back on the Universe.

Denying destiny’s gifts

The Universe sends everyone love in so many forms, but many people use judgement, fear, and resistance to reject and deny them. Are you one of those? Consider these scenarios for example.

  • The potential partners that you meet that is scrutinized and rejected.
  • You don’t want to get a pet because of the responsibility of caring for it. Even if a dog or a cat follows you home and pours love onto you, you still refuse their love.
  • You don’t accept the career change offered to you out of fear of making a change.
  • You care about a cause but don’t want to get involved.
  • You don’t want to extend yourself in any way in case you are inconvenienced.
  • You refuse to share your talents in case you meet some criticism or rejection.
  • Or you become too cynical; as my sister did in believing her own worth; to be convinced that you could possibly matter.

You don’t have to like everything about me to benefit from the SFT tapping or what is offered here on Jenuine Healing. I am just the one delivering the gifts in this form to you.  You don’t have to appreciate the delivery person. You don’t have to hang on every word I say. Just simply accept the love that the Universe is attempting to hand to you and allow this delivery person to continue their delivery rounds.

By reading this, by resonating with what is written here and accepting what is offered here, you have the opportunity to prove yourself and everyone else wrong who has put limitations on your worth.  Please accept this simple bouquet of words: You are so beautiful. You are so worthy of perpetual joy, love, abundance, freedom, health, success and wholeness; in all moments.  Simply accept the gifts as they come.

SFT tapping to regain your self-worth

Say each of these statements three times while continuously tapping on the top of your head, a fourth time while continuously tapping on your chest, and a fifth time while continuously tapping on your abdomen.

We release all the pain and trauma that has resulted in a sense of unworthiness; in all moments.

We remove all blockages to embracing the totality of our worth; in all moments.

We remove all curses on our self-worth; in all moments.

We release internalizing self-admonishment; in all moments.

We remove all engrams and muscle memory that have destroyed our self-worth; in all moments.

We recant all vows of self-deprecation; in all moments.

We recant all vows of self- deprivation; in all moments.

We recant all vows of servitude; in all moments.

We recant all vows of martyrdom; in all moments.

We interrupt all the mind loops that the ego has instilled to separate us from our empowerment; in all moments.

We knock all those we worship off their pedestals; in all moments.

We remove ourselves from all hierarchical systems; in all moments.

We recant all vows and agreements to a vengeful petty God; in all moments.

We dissipate all psychic streams of energy that ensconce us in unworthiness; in all moments.

We remove ourselves from participating in any vitriol; in all moments.

We take back all our empowerment from all those who have limited us; in all moments.

We readily accept the bouquet of blessings that the Universe offers us; in all moments.

We are centered and empowered in embracing all the blessings of the Universe; in all moments.

We remove all blockages to accepting our beautiful worth; in all moments.

We are centered and empowered in accepting our beautiful worth; in all moments. We resonate, emanate, and are interconnected with all life in accepting our beautiful worth; in all moments.

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