When someone crosses over

Your loved ones remain present in subtler vibrations when they cross over. By refining your senses, you can bridge the divide, dispelling feelings of loss and abandonment, and embrace the eternal bond.

People really don’t go anywhere when they cross over. They slip off the vibration of their physical skin and are still present in more subtle vibrations. There are a multitude of universes embedded in each moment free from the coarse vibration of the physical realm. Loved ones who cross over are free to experience the beauty of these more subtle realms.

The eternal presence after crossing

But they aren’t lost to you. They just don’t have the coarse senses any more to communicate with you in the physical realm. It is up to you to hone your subtle senses so that you can communicate with them. It doesn’t have to be mysterious or creepy. It can be as sweet and beautiful as sensing them in the subtle breeze, hearing a phrase they used to use come from the lips of another, or hear a sweet song that always reminded you of them.

The belief that they are lost to you forever is what causes a disconnect in them. Crossing doesn’t have to be so drastic and harsh. Those whose loved ones stay in tuned with them after they have crossed feel blessed to have the best of both worlds.

Building bridges between the realms

What causes the separation between ourselves and those who have crossed is a simple misunderstanding of the process. The emotional devastation of losing someone physically can conjure up deep seated feelings of abandonment. This emotional baggage creates a schism in the relationship and interferes with the connection between the physical and the astral realm. The good news is that the opposite is also true. Positive intentions between yourself and a loved one who has crossed will forge a healthy bridge between the border of this world and the next.

SFT taps to connect with someone crossed over

Do these Spiritual Freedom Technique (SFT) taps to reconnect to the subtle realms. Say each statement three time while continuously tapping on the top of your head, a fourth time while continuously tapping on your chest, and a fifth time while continuously tapping on your abdomen. Fill in the blank spaces with the name of a love one that has crossed over.

We release feeling abandoned by ___________’s crossing; in all moments.

We release resenting ___________ in any way; in all moments.

We accept _______’s crossing; in all moments.

We release using _______’s passing to get attention; in all moments.

We release creating drama around ________’s crossing; in all moments.

We release shutting down to _______’s love at their crossing; in all moments.

We release associating _________ with sadness and abandonment; in all moments.

We remove all the trauma and engrams of abandonment triggered by _________’s crossing; in all moments.

We dry up all the drama and negativity that others inadvertently link with ________’s crossing; in all moments.

We dissipate all the limitations of misguided ignorance in regard to ________’s crossing; in all moments.

We heal all wounds between ourselves and ________; in all moments.

We bridge the divide between ourselves and _________; in all moments.

We accept __________’s love in every form; in all moments.

We release saddling ___________ with grief; in all moments.

We release disconnecting from ________ because they have passed; in all moments.

We release withdrawing our love from ________; in all moments.

We shift our paradigm from sadness to gratitude; in all moments.

We release all the grief that causes separation between ourselves and __________; in all moments.

We are centered and empowered in divine love for ________; in all moments.

We resonate, emanate and are interconnected with all life in divine love for __________; in all moments.

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